wrong?
is it wrong to give gye a second chance if the first time he didnt have time 4 me cuz my frinds think so and its real hard because i missed him and thats our job right? miss the last gye and freak out the next? not that ive dated n e one sence him but i could have cuz there are three gyes that like me one is annoing because he is like 8 suger clumps too sweet coffee and one who is a total hotty but the only thing he will do is well try to get sum because im not the type o girl in my school that just n e one will addmit to dating because im 2 myself and absolutly no one knows me cuz i refuse to allow sympothy and my topic is sypothy worthy sooo and the last well idk he has liked me for a long time and i never knew till now sooo hey im a little frightened and this gye i just said yes to live 1/2 an hour to a full hour away im in angola he is in silver creek soooo when mommy or daddy feels like driven whn neither of us r busy we can see each other sooo there tell me wut to do? cuz me being a phsycologist to my self dont work n e more i used to kno how to deal with stuff i only had one super bad problem and every thing else seemed positivly small at being a situation sooooo im lost and i cant even find myself n e more and that is a whole nother issue!!!!!!!!
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Ahhhh! Beware the brick of text! Let me introduce you to my friend. ---> . His name is Mr. period, he is very helpful in situations such as this. He gladly gives his services, and even has a few friends such as Sir Question Mark (Can I be of assistance, Ma'am?), Miss Exclimation (Like, Oh my GOD!) the little rambunctious commas and all sorts of other family in living on Puncuation road (but far from spelling lane, obviously... ) but I digress. My little joke is over. Anyway, in my lifetime I've seen many areas where a second chance is cool but others where a second chance is a big big no no. It all depends on the situation, feelings, and gut instinct. It also has ALOT to do with how the person is acting compared to how they acted back when the first chance got cut off. If you don't see a change in commitment, a second chance is not earned. Yes. I said EARNED. Chances are a form of respect and trust, both qualities that it takes time and effort to earn. When given out freely, and this is speaking of all three aspects, it's likely that the chance, trust or respect won't get the same credit back. When something is earned it's more likely to be noticed. I'm not one to give second chances anymore, but that's just me. I've been hurt too many times, gotten over it too many times and found someone else too many times to dwell on 'what might have been had I given them one more chance' . You've probably heard the term 'there are more fish in the sea' a few times, well trust me it's true as you've well found out. Take time to rebound, be friends with the guy, see where he's at in his life and how he acts towards you as a friend - don't jump right back into the relationship, that always spells disaster. Instead take the time to start back at the beginning. If this is too much trouble for him, then I guess he doesn't deserve a second chance.. and if you're too impatient to wait then I'd suggest just going for the hottie and getting a little nookie. After all, if you can't wait for love then that's not what you're looking for to begin with, right? Don't let history or past get in the way of making this decision. Things started quickly end quickly. Things invested in work out in the long run. Ok, I'm done with my long windedness. I should really be in bed right now. Jeebus.... |
